Why do couples change after marriage?
We often hear complaints from the wife that her husband has changed after marriage, and rarely hear the man say that his wife has changed after marriage, and this is because the man by nature does not complain but this does not deny that he feels that it is no longer the same, The complaint we hear from most wives and very few husbands? Here in the following lines we will identify the actual reasons for this feeling:
1. Stress of life:
Before marriage, life is calm and stress-free. As marriage approaches, the pressure on Khatib increases. Marriage is a happy life. But as the days go by, there is pressure on the husband in his work and his attempt to provide a decent living for his family, but the wife is exhausted in the work of the house, and raising children if not working. With the increase in the size of the responsibility on the spouses is a significant change in their behavior, not back as in the past and therefore find their complaint is that there is not enough time among them as in the past.
2 - The wife's work and non-fulfillment:
The husband may love to see his wife as full-time as she was before marriage, or less interested in not going to anything else, and the involvement of the wife in the work drains her energy, leading to a defect in her ability to reconcile her work and her duty As a wife and a mother. These factors are directly affected by the husband's sense of neglect of his wife, and feel to himself that she is no longer as before, and may be authorized to do so by criticizing her and causing problems between them.
3. Neglect in self:
Before marriage, the wife is interested in the elegance and weight and clothes worn, but after marriage it neglects all of this, or interest is not the same as the former due to pressures and domestic work everyday, and the same thing happens with the husband is very interested in himself and keen to appear good in front of her , Wearing the best clothes and buying the most expensive perfume, and the disappearance of all these things cause a feeling of couples that there is a big change occurred after marriage.
Words of love and gifts:
The relationship before marriage at the height of its strength and the emotional rush of both parties, and see the most beautiful and named meanings of love in their actions, each party wants to prove to the other that it deserves his heart deservedly, we see a flood of gifts are exchanged on occasion and without occasion, and the words of fresh love does not leave any dialogue between them , The two parties think that the form of life after marriage will continue in this way, but the surprise occurs and may be more shocking to the wife than the husband because the mirror is emotional and sensitive in nature, which makes the wife feel that her husband disagreed or afraid that his love is no longer as it was
5. Getting used to:
In the engagement stage, the khateeb and the preacher crave for their life after the marriage, and they languish because they are united by a single house. After marriage, the couple wishes to return time to the engagement stage, because of their lack of many distinctive things that occurred during that period. What happens after the marriage is getting used to it To the presence of his wife, which is also accustomed to his presence with her calm feelings before, and the rush, which had a time of engagement weaken, and enthusiasm and curiosity for marital life as well, and this does not mean the end of love or weakness, never, but is very natural and reasonable, and the solution is breaking the routine from time to time For another.
- 9 Apr, 2018
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