Do not compromise the red lines
In order to have a peaceful married life you have to put some red lines for you and you should not overdo them so as not to provoke anger in your spouse.
These red lines will serve as guidance for you on the road to married life. And make you sure that even if you make a mistake it is a lapse and will not reach you to the extent of a split between you dear wife and your husband.
The first red line: sick jealousy (jealous jealousy):
Well, jealousy is considered by some couples to be jealous, because he feels his wife's interest in him and makes him feel jealous when jealous of him. Jealousy is one of the things that develops the marital relationship. Of course, if the jealousy of the natural level, but if you dare this limit to reach the extent of tying the other party restrictions and limit personal freedom and the question of the smallest things and his phone for the purpose of surveillance and access to the stage of doubt and lack of confidence absolute.
And finally even access to the imagination of the patient, which provides the owner with imaginary images do not have a basis in fact this jealous wife dear jealousy is malicious and undesirable.
The wife sometimes falls in error with her husband because of her passionate passion. As soon as her husband mentions the name of another woman in a transient narration that depicts her poor imagination that her husband is associated with her name with a relationship and begins to observe his movements and accuses her husband of false accusations.
Dear wife, the husband feels this jealousy as a prisoner and besieged by his wife in this manner the husband feels that his house and its relationship is a prison and that has deprived herself and her husband marital happiness, which has always been aspiring to.
Red Line II: non-disclosure of marital secrets:
Some wives, if they have a problem or a crisis with their husbands, broadcast this problem and spread it between neighbors and friends and family for the purpose of consultation or vandalism and talked about all the marital details and often only the disadvantages are characterized by a bad image of the husband and remain so that the water back to the streams between husband and wife Unfortunately, the bad picture of the husband remains in the minds of friends and family.
There is another problem that appears so that the frequent advice and opinions expressed by relatives and parents most often compound the problem because when they show their views do not touch the strong feelings between the spouses. It is possible that taking this wife who complains to them and her family life is a source of disrespect for her to broadcast the secrets of her home.
There are some wives who tell their mother every little and big so that the mother leads the life of the daughter. And miss the mind of the mother that the husband himself wants to live with his wife and deal and adapt to her mentality and not the mentality of her mother and this dear wife of the strongest reasons that push the husband to escape from home.
Dear wife, always keep in mind that it is the sensible wife who keeps her husband's secrets and home for herself and tries to solve her own problems. Unless all of her plans are implemented and she can not solve a problem on her own, it is advisable to seek advice from someone who trusts her faith and honesty.
Third red line: Eak and physical depletion:
The husband works hard and helps the nights to develop his profession and earn his living to come wife and spend money here and there for trivial reasons, for example, she saw her neighbor beautiful necklace and buy it equal to the amount of salary for a month. Her closet and her children's wardrobe are filled with clothes from the brands in the market. She continues to buy clothes only because she saw for example new models in the market, although she has her own clothes. Well, but here is the position of the husband, who sees daily money that is tired to earn it leaks from his hands to the pockets of others because of and without reason poor husband can not speak because if he showed an objection to his wife to tear him tears and distressed him his life and expressed his opinion at the price went down her tongue drops every opinion and followed thanked her husband at least.
The wife who is not jealous and who likes to acquire all new is not the ideal wife. This will cause the same husband to worry. She is always sluggish and does not live up to her standard of living (this is not called ambition, but rather discontentment).
- 10 Apr, 2018
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