How do you know that the bridegroom of your speech is fit or not?
Marriage is an important institution. Every married woman seeks success in every way. It is difficult to build it and make a decision to start it with just one interview. The first acquaintance is to have a good acquaintance before the engagement stage and to know the basic criteria that must be agreed upon by asking the same person.
Concept of marriage between the parties:
Concept of marriage Is it just for the purpose of maternity? This is often the dream of every wife, or is he the desire of a parent? , Or complete the happiness dreamed by each party? , The multiplicity of concepts of marriage and must be known and knowledge of the compatibility between the parties?
What qualities does each party wish and dream about?
Every partner should talk about his needs, what he likes and what he dislikes his impressions of some actions and criticisms, so that he can judge each party if it suits the other or not?
Ambitions and goal of life:
It is difficult to establish a successful marriage relationship and one party has great ambition and the other does not, so it is necessary to clarify this point, and also know whether these ambitions are common or not, is it worthy to establish a successful marriage relationship or not?
Religious and Religious Level:
The level of indebtedness of both partners Is it hard, middle? His way of thinking and impressions? And the existence of religion in his life? What does religion represent?
Consensus in the physical, social and scientific level:
One of the most important points that must be followed is good, which is the basis of marriage and the establishment of the relationship, which succeeds in the other points above, the common thinking method depends on the consensus of the social and scientific level.
To make a good impression, each party must follow the following:
First ... not to exaggerate the description of the soul
It is natural that each party describes itself, its character, character, behavior and seeks to be admired by the other party, but exaggeration may give a bad impression, so humility must be described in self-description.
Second ... Elegance and good appearance
The ability to coordinate the choice of dress and colors suitable for the time and place of the meeting
Third: openness, transparency and clarity:
Each one should list the details of his or her life, his potential and his ability to participate in the marriage with clarity and honesty. Lying in these things is due to failure to establish a successful marriage relationship.
Both parties must pay attention to this
If any party feel uncomfortable and unwilling to complete the conversation and escape from thinking about this matter, this is the share, the two parties may have many advantages and expectations to establish a successful relationship, but God Almighty and his share and wisdom God Almighty above all
- 12 May, 2018
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