The art of dialogue between the couple

The art of dialogue between the couple

The dialogue is one of the foundations of the success of marital life between the spouses marital life is not without the existence of differences in opinions between the spouses and thus the occurrence of differences and problems between them and this is normal, but it is important to know how to solve these problems and access to views and views of a close manner and successful dialogue between spouses is the one Close the views and also reduce the severity of the problems because the dialogue makes each party understands the views of the other party, but must be the way to dialogue nice and calm until we reach the dialogue to the extent we want and the wife should follow these methods when dialogue with her husband and these methods include:
Silence:
There is a lot of couples infatuation and when a disagreement between the husband and wife resorted to the husband to the constant nervous scream because he always thinks he is right, his wife must understand her husband's personality and accept it and also must remain silent when her husband resort to infamy and scream because the wife if she resorted to shouting The problem will be further aggravated and very much up. If the wife commits silence, the wife will calm down and they will solve the dispute.
Avoid comparison:
Husband does not like to compare his wife to others, the wife should not cite the opinions of others and when the wife talks with her husband must do so alone and not to resort to the introduction of any other party between them and her husband because this will increase the severity of the dispute and lead to a failure to reach a solution to the problem The wife is capable of dialogue Quietly and nicely and nicely.
Not to charge:
Most of the things that irritate the husband is the resort to his wife to be accused of default permanently, most of the wives permanently accusing their spouses not to bear the responsibilities and shorten the turn of the house and children, this causes discomfort to the husband and makes it permanent affliction on his wife his children, the wife must be calm and be patient and if her husband Mistakes should be discussed with him quietly away from making many accusations.
Good thinking:
There are many wives when discussing with their spouses to resolve a dispute between them say a lot of words that increase the anger of the husband and then regret to say these words, the wife should think well before saying to the words Most women are pushed because of their dependence on passion must be patient to be The dialogue between the couple is successful and proper.
Do not resort to threats:
When the wife resorted to threats to her husband, this increases the rebellion of the man to feel that the stronger and also increases the differences between them and the wife's resort to threats does not help her to win the debate does not make her husband listens to her and does not care about her and makes him see that it is unable to provide true views, the wife must be Quiet and do not resort to threats.
Calm nerves:
It is good to have the wife calmly because the nerves of the nerves of the wife makes the husband hesitant to do many things that may be interrupted by a quiet wife can discuss with her husband in a successful way and that both spouses have successful views of a healthy wife and quiet also able to resolve any dispute between them Her husband must be patient and calm.
Asylum for self-education:
Most couples prefer an educated wife and see that she is a successful woman. The wife must resort to increasing her culture and resort to reading and attention to what her husband prefers. The wife should be interested in reading and reading many books that contain the methods of dialogue and discussion in a successful and proper way.
It is very important that the marital life is characterized by love, tranquility and respect between the spouses and this thing will not exist unless the couple have a successful method of discussion and dialogue and listen to each other and that each cares about the other side and thinking of the other and that the wife is struggling to absorb the anger of her husband and always try Whoever calms him so that the wife can earn love and trust her husband and also earn the life of his wife successful between her husband.