Age difference between husband and wife
There is a difference in the society's view on the age difference between husband and wife, especially if this difference is in favor of the wife, ie, the wife is the one who exceeds the husband in age. There is a group of society that sees this as something that is normal but easy to understand each other And not always be the mentality of men because of the mixing of men and many different groups of society with their various qualities and practices, which gives him an open mentality by virtue of the corresponding positions of vitality during his social and practical life in different women, especially the Oriental woman who naturally do not know much about life matters T To prevent them from mixing with a lot and even if they work, the sound education is imperative not to mix with much but within the limits and because of this we find a great conceptual vacuum between the thinking of men and women only if the age or the woman was greater than men but not much, this difference in age reduces the space This intellectual vacuum gives the wife knowledge of many life situations and how to deal with them.
But another group of society does not see the same view, but believes that it is necessary for women to be less than men, but this view is of a future nature, this category does not look at men and women at the moment but imagine the situation after decades, how will be the situation and how The husband will bear the wife who may have inherited and still wants to enjoy his life, but this concept is wrong If we look at this view from the opposite perspective we see that if the man is greater than the women of large teams, the husband may be pyramid and the wife is still in the prime of youth and has many ambitions of marriage So dream about your composition It is not easy at all, both spouses are looking for love, understanding and respect in the other direction. This is the most important thing in marriage, and not the difference in age is the basic factor. There must be a conceptual and social consensus between them, as well as their spiritual and spiritual interest. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "If he comes to you from those who please his religion and his faithfulness, they will marry him."
This is the key to building a happy married life.
And not necessarily a consensus in age, but the society's view is often cruel especially for women who marry a man younger than our age, but unlike the man who is entitled to everything even if married to a woman our youngest age, even the difference more than twenty years This is our harsh society, From the man does not mean failure to marital life, but vice versa, as we mentioned before that successful marriage is based on understanding and sympathy and love, not age difference, but we try to mention the existence of convergence in the sense of age difference from one to three or four years and not to reach ten years or more In order to find a relative affinity between them in ideas This concerns the difference between the man and his wife makes them more knowledgeable, mature and understanding and assume its responsibilities and burdens of life with him ..
And we have the greatest example was their marriage the greatest marriage successful with the presence of age difference, including the Messenger of Allah Muhammad peace be upon him. When he married Mrs. Khadija, may God be pleased with her and she was in the forty years of age, but was the Messenger of Allah has reached the age of twenty-five was the first to believe in his message and the intensity of his love and loyalty to her when she died did not marry after ...
This is proof that a successful marriage is based on respect, love, honesty and understanding.
- 13 May, 2018
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