The secret of finding love
It is said that love is made of destiny, and we read in poetry that love is a feeling of rapid evaporation
But in fact the secret of finding love lies in your consciousness, your thoughts, your expectations, and your thoughts about arranging and managing God for you.
Love arises from your intention and ideas:
Love does not arise on its own, but it needs to form and grow like anything else
When you want to cook a particular food, you first think about the nature of the food, the ingredients and the way you prepare and begin to make an effort to prepare it
So that this food becomes a reality, love will not come and you sit in your home without any pursuit
But you must seek, by praying and taking the reasons by repairing yourself
And prepare to meet love, and learn how to deal with the other sex within the relationship of Muslim marriage
By attending courses or reading books, if you find your true love but you are not ready for it you will not be able to keep it alive.
Meaning to have a partner / partner:
Before you find your true love, you have to know exactly what the relationship between you is within your marriage
Partnership is formed when both parties believe that there is a common gain through the relationship
And this gain will not be achieved without this partnership, and here begins to move from "I" to "we"
There is no doubt that partnership has many pros and cons
The positive aspect here is the beautiful feelings such as feeling satisfied, safe and peace and you will not remain alone
So there are those who share your time and your life, there are those who love you and cares about you and meet your needs
It also adds to your life a kind of cheerfulness and fun
But the downside here is that you are no longer lonely,
This means that you no longer own only yourself, so you have to deal with the differences between you and the other
This means that you have to leave a place in your life that the other can live inside
When you choose something or make a decision, it will not affect you alone,
But it will affect you together, so you must take his feelings, desires and needs into account and appreciation
Leading to adjustments in your life and your agenda, to suit each other
If you used to rely on yourself only in every small and large in your life,
This makes you take your decisions without the other party, which leads to the other party being angry
Therefore, you have to take this point into account, and the schedule of your life needs to be amended, you may not waive or negotiate things that were recognized in your life in the past.
Partner / partner selection:
The whole universe is male and female. In ancient China, the universe is called "Yin and Yang", meaning that the universe is a combination of feminine energy and masculine energy, and that the balance between male and female ensures the balance of the universe
So when you balance your inner energy, you find a partner / partner whose inner energy is balanced
Because the thing attracts the like, but you should not choose partnership and enter into an Islamic marriage relationship in order to get rid of societal pressures or to get rid of the feeling of loneliness
Because this is not a strong basis on the basis of marital relations when you accept a certain situation because you see that you are imposed on the circumstances, then you discover that your choice and your decision was not the best.
- 4 May, 2019
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