Help your fiance get rid of his stress before marriage
Before marriage and during the engagement period in particular, the man is going through very difficult positions, and become very nervous on his unusual. This is due to his preoccupation with thinking about the matters of marriage and processing, physical obligations and the costs of the wedding, and since the man does not complain in spite of his need for support, know how to support your fiance in that period until marriage.
Understanding the causes:
The man may not permit you to be preoccupied with what is going on in him, and hide his concern and confusion before you, because he sees his openness to what is happening inside him weakness, and here comes your role dear girl at that stage to know what goes through your fiance and try to put yourself in his place and understand the responsibilities that fall on me Rather than criticizing his nervousness and anxiety, and know that the charges will be an additional factor of tension, so relieve him of what passes by and accept him to feel confidence and get support from you and draws strength to face the things facing him, and remember that in a word you can change things for the better.
Do not pressure him:
The biggest fear of a man is to be disrespectful towards his lover and feel that he is not worthy of assuming responsibility and when he sees that he is short and suffers tension and distress, my dear dear if I feel at that critical period that he is short on you, or is no longer like the former, or forget the most important occasions between you, You must know my dear that he did not forget deliberately, but he expresses his love for you with his equipment to be married, being confident that he loves you and has not changed for you, but is a period and will go away. Instead of blaming and baseless accusations, I support him with all his strength and never underestimate him, and you will notice the difference later as a result of your support for him.
Love is the most precious thing you have. So you do not take a decision in this period to end the engagement because of the many differences that may occur as a result of tension, as may be less interest between you and become cool feelings of concern, and always waiting for the girl initiative from her fiance to begin is breaking the barrier, At that time you may not start with the initiative because of what you are going through, do not look and take the initiative, cut the barrier whenever you need it, and you can talk to him amicably about the damage of excess nerves and stress on health.
Give him help:
I feel that you are with him in this matter and that he is not alone. Do actions that you feel strongly support for him. Do not get busy and leave him fighting the time and the time for the marriage to take place between you and be the building stone for a strong relationship between you and cooperation in all things of life. Tension and fears. You will feel comfortable and reassured and wish you a happy, happy engagement.
- 10 Apr, 2018
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