Very important steps for successful engagement
The most beautiful periods of love are usually in the engagement stage where they are filled with feelings of love and attention, and have a special luster different from the rest of the stages of life.
Is a period of good acquaintance, and see if he is the ideal partner or not ?? ..... Have you made a good choice or abused ??
For the correct answer to these questions we come with a set of tips, including:
The presence of frankness and transparency in transactions must clarify things and that each partner understands the nature of the other, and his style of life without embarrassment or beauty.
Accepting that every human being has imperfections, there is no perfect human being who has no defects and to determine whether these defects can coexist with them or the disadvantages of stopping the marriage process.
... Always seek to find common things between you, for example there is something common in the way of dealing and thinking, common ambition, elegance and self-interest.
To tell each other partner who is for him? What is represented in his day and daily habits that have changed because of it, this is something romantic rejoices the heart of the abductees.
The two partners understand the nature of women and the nature of men: women always need attention, slavery in dealing, and the man likes to have an influential view, and to feel his regrets and always likes to feel the best men in the eyes of his partner.
The negative thoughts of each partner toward the opposite sex (woman or man), for example: the view of some women towards men that they are "selfish, cruel and cruel," and also some men's view of women as "idiots, Negative ideas that need to be discussed and discussed.
(An important point) is the treatment of parents should pay attention to them and good treatment and work on social relations between the people of the offenders and act more tactfully with them.
How is the engagement on the best despite the alienation and that each of them in another country ????
You must communicate daily, whether online or telephone, and tell each other partner details of the day these things bring you closer and agree on your future plans and not believe that any dispute will lead to the end of the relationship, there must be mutual trust between the abductees.
And finally ... What did Islam see in the betrothal ??
Engagement in Islam ... is a promise of marriage, a legitimate opportunity to study each partner's personality and to test their satisfaction and acceptance.
Marriage in Islam goes through three stages first: engagement, second: holding the Koran and third: the wedding.
Islam gave these stages legitimately to study each partner for the other, in the presence of the family and respect the rules of Islamic religion.
- 18 Apr, 2018
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