Marital life is a partnership between both spouses and naturally differences in views between the spouses and so it is possible to have differences between the parties and this is normal, there is no home free of differences and problems for each difference between one house and the degree of disagreement and the way and style and extent of the spouses on Resolve these differences and considers the husband is the main leader of the house and responsible for him who is able to bear the full responsibility and demands that work hard to find solutions to the problems facing their married life and falls on the husband a major role in the stability of marital life and the husband can be successful or that Wen pairs a failure and this is determined by the extent of the husband holds responsibility entrusted to him and qualities of a successful pair following:
good treatment :
The good treatment is the main reason for the success of marital life, there must be love, love and understanding between the spouses and said God Almighty in his book, the name of God the Merciful (and make you affection and mercy) the truth of God Almighty and love and love are the basis of dealing and the basis of success in life.
Take responsibility :
The husband bears the lion's share of this responsibility. The husband is the one who controls the course of marital life. The role of the husband should not be a marginal role, but his role should be the primary role. The husband must be pleasant, lenient, tolerant and compassionate to his family so that he can From gaining their love, respect and appreciation.
Control of emotions:
Marital life is not without differences of opinion and views between the spouses and therefore this sometimes causes problems between the two parties, but a solution to these problems and differences must be reached quietly away from anger and shouting and the husband must temper and control his emotions.
We are all human beings and can make some mistakes, but the successful husband must seek excuses for his wife and children and not to stand on the slightest and the most common mistakes and punish them when the husband forgives the mistakes of his family and explain the mistake to them in a nice way away from the shouting that increases their respect and appreciation for him and also increases their confidence in him And love them and make them try hard not to fall into error again.
Respect for Opinion:
It is good in marital life to have a consultative opinion between the spouses and to listen to each other party to know his opinion and access to a common opinion satisfied both parties and the man must take a decision of his own without consulting his wife because this wife feels not important and not important opinion and thus lack Her self-confidence.
Whatever the husband has a lot of occupations and businesses that take most of his time he must balance the life of the process and his family life and one should not overwhelm the other, he must also work with every effort to succeed in his practical life also to do his best to provide his family romantic Caring, safety, love and balance between care, justice, flexibility and firmness.
true feelings :
Emotional feelings are very important for the continuation of marital life successfully, which is the basis for overcoming the difficulties of life and the problems of both spouses must show his feelings to his partner to feel the importance of his life, especially the husband should not neglect his feelings towards his wife and not preoccupied with his work and neglect his wife because Women are very thinly tended to romanticize and care for women, as if roses are neglected.
Fun and humor:
The spirit of fun and humor is essential and important to break the routine of life and change the boredom that afflicts life, the husband has these qualities can delight his family can also be the husband to travel with his family to somewhere or go to a place they prefer or visit relatives and friends or share his wife and children interests so the husband can approach more than His family.
With these qualities, the husband can get closer to his wife and children, and also to the success of marital life and increase the affection, love and understanding between the spouses and thus the husband is successful in his life with his family and this increases the bond between the husband and wife and children This is very important because in most homes the role of the husband is just Money is the wife is everything in the house by the husband these things can occupy the role and place greater with his wife and his children and closer to him more and increase the connection between them and thus the husband is doing his duty captive to the fullest.
- 18 May, 2018
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