The failed husband
The marital life is based on sound rules and rules agreed upon by both spouses to manage the things of their lives and these rules are binding by both husband and wife, but the biggest part is to be borne by the husband because of his ability to bear the largest responsibility Whatever gave the wife opinion of something is the last opinion of the husband for this falls On the husband the greater part of the management of marital life and be a marital life healthy and happy or be a failed life on the basis of the husband's ability to manage life If the husband is successful in management and can bear the responsibility so life is successful and healthy and full of happiness, whether the husband is a person Can not bear the responsibility of his family so marital life failed and characteristics of the husband failed:
Relying on lying:
The failed husband can not bear the responsibility always resort to lying to escape from positions that will appear failure and also resort to lying to reach its goals and objectives, but lying always sign the owner from mistake to error and does not save the owner from mistakes and problems as some think.
Unsuccessful in his life:
The unsuccessful person is always unsuccessful in his life and even his social life because he is unable to run and manage things. Success in life is not easy or easy, but success in the business or social life needs planning to the future and the ability to manage things well.
Often the husband is unsuccessful and overcome by indifference, he does not care about something does not look at the things of his home or his wife and even his children and all things are equal to him does not feel responsible to any member of his family or towards his home and does not care about their requests do not care about anything.
Always weak and weak people tend to hostility and quarrels and constant screaming and can not fail the person failed to solve his problems calmly and in an ideal manner sane but resort to shouting loudly and be a dry person feelings towards his wife and children he can not gain their love and confidence and appreciation for him.
Authoritarian and incompetent:
The failed husband tends to make decisions on his own without resorting to the shura. Most of the time, these decisions are wrong. He thinks that if he takes his wife's view, this will reduce his chances, but in fact this will increase his status and increase his ability with his wife and not reduce him. The failed spouse is not proficient in dialogue and often his opinions tend to be harsh and unfair to his family members.
Frown and Closed:
Often this husband lacks the spirit of humor and fun and tends to frown most of the time and shut down as he considers that the fainting and closure of the features of manhood and that if he possessed the spirit of fun and laughter and humor, this has abandoned a large part of the attributes of menhood, but this is wrong because the successful husband is from He possesses humor and fun and can delight his wife and children and gain their love for him.
The basis of successful marital life is that this life is based on love, love, mercy and trust between the spouses so that they can live together happily and successfully in their lives but in most cases the husband is a failure of doubt and does not trust any work done by any member of his family and this leads to many differences and problems Which is present at home and afflicts the family members with constant tension and anxiety and thus turn life into hell.
Lack of self-control:
The successful husband is able to control himself in the event of differences even if these differences are large and can control the matter and reach the best solution to the dispute, but the failed husband can not control himself even in the smallest positions and the simplest problems and can not control his nerves and tend to excessive intolerance and constant screaming and therefore Increase the size of the problem and not reach a suitable solution.
The resort to continuous orders:
The husband fails to know the meaning of taste and tenderness in the treatment is always inclined to give orders and his wife to carry out these orders without objecting to any of them he gives them a list of requests and the wife to address all these requests immediately as a servant at home and not his wife and if nothing Among them, this wife is considered to be short and the husband starts to swear and cry.
Does not admit his mistakes:
All the human beings can be mistaken and it is not a shame that a person apologizes for a mistake, but the failed husband believes that apologizing is something that reduces his dignity and himself and sees himself that he is always right and that he never makes mistakes and that his wife is always the cause of differences and problems and this creates a big gap between the spouses And increase the differences between them.
Marital life is a partnership between the spouses and each of them must play their fullest role so that the success of life between them and the husband a large role of responsibility and the acquisition of the love and love and respect and appreciation of his family and the husband must respect his wife and improve the treatment and thus will love and affection for marital life and be Successful .
- 18 May, 2018
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