The spendthrift wife
The waste is one of the worst qualities that may exist in the human and causes the most of the marital differences, as the wife gets upset by the husband and the scoundrel sees that it is not suitable for marriage, so the husband gets upset by the wife of the despicable and finds it can not do what he does to get this money The husband respects and appreciates the wife who (Peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Do not let your hand be tied to your neck.
A smart wife is the one who can keep her husband's money and put a disciplined budget in line with her husband's income and also can save part of it. The smart wife is the one who can overcome difficulties and tribulations and reassure her husband and assure him of their ability to overcome the physical crises. the following :
Many women do not have a mask of their lives and they have greed resort to always spend a lot of money and waste and do not look at the physical ability of the husband because of their upbringing on the basis of religious sound and said the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him (Vazfr the same religion raised your hands) ratified the Messenger of God.
Bad education :
Most parents advise their daughters at marriage to ask for many requests from their husbands without looking at the husband's ability to make these requests.
watching TV :
TV is a basic reason for the waste of women, it wants to imitate everything you see when you see something in a series of what you want to imitate directly without considering the ability of her husband material is all what you consider him and it is important to achieve what you wish and everything you ask.
customs and traditions :
One of the causes of waste is also the habits and traditions, such as the excesses of solitude and joys, and all this waste is due to boast and pride without thinking about the excessive costs spent on things that are not necessary and which the husband may be unable to meet.
There are several ways to deal with extravagance and waste, including:
Identify the necessary things:
The wife must determine what the necessary things that can not be dispensed with and it is necessary to buy them and ask them from her husband in a timely manner as she should get away from the things that are lost money only and do not provide him until the wife maintains the money of her husband and the husband feels his wife's appreciation for his effort and fatigue.
Do not spend too much:
Many women prefer to give a lot of gifts to relatives and friends without thinking about the ability of her husband material on it is possible that the wife away from many exaggerated gifts and to provide appropriate gifts on occasions so that both spouses can keep the money and spare part of it for the future.
Delay and not rush:
Most women are quick to make a purchase. The wife can buy the same thing more than once. This is because of the rush. Before paying the money, the wife must ask herself if this is the thing she wants or not, or if this is appropriate for her. No, but many women do not think and once they are impressed with something you buy immediately and then it becomes clear to them that this is not suitable for them or contrary to what they wanted, you have to wait when the purchase process.
Looking at the right price:
The wife should consider whether this is the right price for the thing you want or that this thing can get it at a lower price, if it was able to get it less, it can save the remaining amount or buy another necessary Xia needed also all these things feel that the husband His wife keeps his money and this makes the husband increase his confidence in his wife and reassuring her.
It is necessary to stay away from wasteful and wasteful and preserving the money and saving them. Allaah has ordered us to refrain from waste. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
As the waste causes many marital problems and differences in view of the wife's innumerable demands and the husband is unable to meet all of them, the differences increase and consequently leads to the failure of marital life between the spouses, the wife must maintain her marital happy quiet away from the problems and maintain the Fatigue and effort of her husband and his money and away from the extravagance and waste.
- 18 May, 2018
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