Marriage between habit and worship
We often hear the words of God in the verse
In the name of of Allah the Merciful
"Among his signs is that the creation of your husband from among yourselves is a husband and he will be among you
However, one of us stops to contemplate the meaning of this wonderful and wonderful verse or work to understand it well and apply it and make it a way of life. We hear it a lot and often what we see in the wedding cards, but we do not realize or understand the meaning of the Lord, who really wants the Almighty and the lofty meanings and lofty ideas If applied raise the human soul and happy to the farthest field
The meaning of the verse and the meaning of marriage in Islam
We often understand this verse wrongly and explain it that marriage is usually a link between men and women according to custom and tradition only and on the basis that marriage is the year of life no more and make the focus of our lives after marriage is centered on how to keep pace with the days and keep pace with life from providing the requirements of living from food, clothing and shelter Along with the attempt by each of the parties to trap and catch the mistakes of the other and processing to respond to any attack from him, either by the husband or wife as a war
But we find that God calls us in this verse to compassion between the spouses and the need to each other towards each other, if we reflect on the meanings of the verse we find that the meaning of saying "and make you yourselves" is a strong indication of how close the woman from the heart of the man and himself He created from himself, God created Eve from the same Adam and his rib so as to always remain close to his heart and be compassionate to it is the closest creation to him and intended to say the Almighty "and make between you affection and mercy," ie, God made this wife a blessed and merciful God bless the heart of the man and bless To him when needed as God made the intimacy between the spouses so that they can live with b So how do they accept each other without this familiarity? Most couples are strangers to each other and not to relatives. How can they accept each other, accept their ideas, ignore them and ignore their shortcomings, and the weakness of your neighborly relationship that God created between them is what makes them condone anything? Hinder their lives and push the composite of married life forward to anchor to safety.
And say "Tskonoa it" ie that God made the wife is the man's dwelling and shelter when adversity and crises, he finds them enjoy it after the effort to work to relieve him and relieve the burdens of life and forget the problems of the burdensome day spent in his work
The meaning of marriage in Islam:
Marriage in Islam is a heavy pact between a man and a woman with the presence of martyrs and the consent of the parents and the meaning of a heavy charter, that is, an agreement between men and women is difficult to violate any party because of the resulting obligations and obligations as a result of this Charter each has rights and duties
The pillars of marriage in Islam:
Among the conditions for completing marriage in Islam are the following:
- Two men, four women or a man and two women to testify on the marriage contract
- The consent of the family of the wife does not marry the free only to satisfy her family, but the woman is the one who does not do otherwise, whether the woman is virgin and her father is her agent or Thiba is the same agent in both cases must be approved by the parents
- Any marriage that is known to all living around the couple this marriage and to ensure the rights of the wife when the husband does not deny his marriage to them, as happens in some cases, such as customary marriage
Marriage is now in our modern day habit or worship:
Unfortunately, marriage in our modern era has become nothing more than a habit, and the two sides no longer care about what is going on between them and should not follow
The husband after the end of the first month of marriage or so-called honeymoon now, a fact that may not exceed a few days after the husband begins to coexist that the wife has become the king of his hands now and therefore does not care about her feelings and views and begins to neglect and wife also begin to busy and think about the house Cleaning and children and pregnancy does not care about him or his rest, and thus difficult problems between them may reach in the past times to divorce and do not hurt only the children between them and become as if they are enemies without mercy or mercy.
We must apply marriage as God and His Messenger have enjoined us to be for the sake of God's pleasure and for the Muslim Muslim to hide and care for her, not for the sake of Jah, nor for money, nor for the sake of interest, but to love obedience to God, to seek His satisfactions, and to fulfill His commands. Marriage is worship like all other acts of worship. To keep pace with life.
- 18 May, 2018
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