The failed marriage and the reasons for continuing it
The success of a marriage is not easy but it is something that needs to the effort of the couple in order to life marital between them succeed and be quiet life full of love and happiness and Alatmitnan for both spouses and children, and this needs to understand each party to personal the other party and try to each party as much as possible to fit defects other party but may not be able to couple understanding together and thus be permanent disagreement with each other and be life between them abortive do not have any love or friendship between the two parties and be life between them almost impossible, and if life between the spouses an impossible there couples prefer separation but there are pairs others prefer to continue Despite the failure of their lives and the reasons that may make the couple continue to marry despite the failure of the following reasons:
the fear :
Fear is one of the main reasons that may make the wife prefer to continue to marry despite his failure to separate from her husband because most wives are afraid to hold an absolute title, this title feels very frightened and makes her feel safe and stable.
Many women do not prefer to face their failure, and many wives do not want to hear the words of reproach and blame from parents and relatives and to blame them for the failure of marriage and separation, so most wives prefer to continue the failed marriage.
One spouse may love the other party very much and can not live without it so prefer to live with him and continue in this failed marriage to be separated from this party governs his heart in choosing things and does not listen to the words of mind, which may be the best and most correct.
Family and children:
Most of the reasons that may make the wife prefer to continue in this marriage is failing children, the wife does not prefer secession if he has children do not even her children, she prefers forcibly dispersed to continue in this marriage so that her children live in a calm atmosphere between loving mother and father.
The wife may have had no source of income only husband If resorted wife detachable do not have a source of living messages, select to live in the confines of her husband and under his auspices that separates him and can not find a source-generating income in order to live it, this may be the reason for the continuation of the wife in the marriage despite Its inability to adapt to the other party.
Adapting to the situation:
The wife may have adapted to this situation and this life is full of exhaustion and differences and problems so do not resort to separation from her husband so as not to move away from her home and her children prefer to live in her home with her children.
So should both young and girl to verify the check in his life partner so choose the right partner and have both sides of their social consensus and the material and cultural even be life marital between them happy there by the warmth and affection and love and respect for both of them to each other, but if both the young man has not verified the girl's choice Married life will have many differences and problems that may not be solved and life ends between them either by permanent differences or by separation.
- 19 May, 2018
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