The emotionally wounded man
Many men have been injured by a woman in the past and has carried all the anger and negative feelings to his current relationships and this hinders him from forming healthy relationships with life partner and men when he is subjected to abuse and emotional blackmail feel emotional wound and has several qualities including:
1. Avoid expressing emotions:
The man here feels that there are no good people in this world or a healthy relationship between two parties. Everything in the past made him think that negative feelings affect his present and always remember the painful events and experiences he experienced.
2- The hatred of women:
This kind of man disliked women and blamed them for all their problems and had a general idea or belief about all women as "traitors" and "liars" and omitting the fact that his poor choice of women in his previous relationship was the main reason for what he was now.
3. Mood swings:
In a moment he is happy and at another moment he is unhappy and for the other party sometimes be happy with him and sometimes want to leave him. The big problem is that the girl does not know why he is behaving so strangely.
4. Acts are different from words:
He tells the girl something and does something completely different from him. Although he loves the girl but he does not express it, he treats her as non-existent because he is afraid of the idea of love.
5- Weak confidence:
The partner of his life can be honest and very honest with him, but this does not make a difference because he believes that it is false because this is what women are back to him was injured and betrayed and afraid to put himself in this situation again so he prefers to believe that he is not faithful to him.
The reasons why a man is emotionally wounded are very harmful to a girl:
1 - can not save the girl:
The girl here may think that she can explain that he can make a healthy relationship between them but he will drag them along the way and curse them so it is difficult for the girl to help him heal from the wound he must do it himself and it is best to stay away from the girl until he begins his recovery.
2- The girl begins to wonder what is wrong with her:
The girl begins to believe that she has a problem but is much better than his previous fiancé and he treats him in a good way is a tender, loving and affectionate and understanding, but it is not a book open to her and does not have feelings like the one you feel for him, it feels frustrated and wounded because of it.
3. Guilt leads to madness:
Here the girl will feel guilty and no doubt that she feels that she deserves the best but look at the situation is linking herself to a man is not suitable for her and here the girl feels guilty because they do it themselves, although the man has many sweet qualities such as: She feels guilty to leave him because this is not clear because it is emotionally devastating and must be left because she will not benefit from this relationship and she does not want to pressure him about the relationship.
4 - habit of men on bad habits:
It is possible that the emotionally wounded man gets used to insulting or beatings, and here the girl gets angry because he does it and then apologizes to her and accuses her of exaggerating her reaction and that his actions do not deserve all this anger and does not feel he is wrong at all.
5. Low self-esteem:
Here the man feels that he has a weakness in self-confidence and it is unbelievable that there is a girl interested in him and love him and want to sacrifice for him he feels that he does not deserve all this love there is a girl left him before so he treats the girl badly because he can not believe that it has beautiful feelings.
Here the man does not talk about what happened to him in his past experience and does not want to express his feelings because he is embarrassed by the idea to tell what happened to him he does not want to talk about this subject so as not to appear weak.
And it is clear that the man who has just emerged from a failed love story must move away completely from entering into a new relationship in order to heal his wound so as not to wrong with him a girl deserves a healthy and successful relationship to enter into a relationship quickly after the end of the previous relationship hurts both men and girls .
- 25 May, 2018
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