Dealing with wife
The wife is the basis of marital life and also the basis of the house is the most compassionate side, which always seeks to bring happiness and success and permanent progress of marital life is always urging her husband and her children to perform their work with excellence and success and really as it is said behind every great man and wife always be required to meet her husband's demands and demand Obedience, even if the wife is abused, the wife is required to accept it calmly and to be mentally and courteously polite and even if it is also demanded not to be angry with his family even if they misbehavior together, but we have to look Is all women are duties and have no rights?
The answer is no, the woman has feelings and feelings must be taken into account and the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in his honorable (Your choice is good for women and I am good for women) Believe the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him
Then you husband, taking into account your wife's standing and here are some tips for that:
Non-violence in the treatment of wife:
Women are thin and sensitive and tend to romanticism must be treated with ease and care of the feelings of this slave and treated gently and gently increases the position of the husband with his wife does not reduce them, but violence in the treatment always leads to the heart and reduce the heart of love between the spouses.
The husband has a great role to provide comfort, safety, reassurance and a sense of happiness to his wife, as well as taking into account the psychological situation experienced by the wife is necessary, the husband must understand and take into account and thus all these things help the success of marital life between both parties.
Do not show your wife's flaws:
Each of us has many disadvantages as it also has many advantages, but the husband not to show the disadvantages of his wife and try to praise them most of the time and help them in a way to get rid of the defects and highlight the advantages, so that the husband can increase the confidence of his wife.
Permanent encouragement of the wife:
It is good that the husband helps his wife and encourage her to do the work that you prefer, such as reading, or practicing the sports you prefer, doing charity or writing, if you prefer, and it is also possible for the husband to show his opinion of what his wife is doing. This encourages her to do more work.
It is possible that if the husband refuses something that his wife prefers to bring to her and this will be very pleased or make them do something that favors the husband and refuses to do this work as it can provide She has a gift to express her love even if it is simple gift and innovation in the delivery of gifts, these things feel happy wife.
Decorate his way of life:
It is very important to style and his way of talking to the wife. The husband should decorate the words and words he speaks with his wife. It is good to decorate his words when she is talking or talking to her. He does not speak to her in a commanding manner. He can praise her work and praise her adornment when decorating all these things. Simple wife feels happy.
Assistant wife in the house:
The husband helps his wife in the domestic business does not diminish the man, but it increases in the eyes of his wife, if the wife is busy many home businesses or was sick, the husband should provide a helping hand to his wife and know what things the house and his wife need to go to buy.
The way to deal with the husband's wife:
The wife's family is also your family should be treated with kindness and kindness and help them if they are caught in a problem and be ashamed in your visit to them and it is possible to provide gift to them from time to time and also it is important to praise your wife in front of her family and encourage your wife to visit them so increase your destiny with your wife and her family .
During the wife's illness, the husband must stand next to his wife and watch over her and do the work that she was doing at home and pray for her to heal, this increases the love between you and feel the importance of your life.
You must specify at least one day a week to spend with your wife and children. It is possible to travel somewhere to spend holidays with them, also to visit family, visit friends and break the daily routines and can also share your wife in doing prayers such as reading and reading the Koran.
The wife is the candle that lights the life and must be preserved and the feelings and respect and appreciation and provide a helping hand and help them because it is a very thin being affected by feelings and thus be happy marital life full of love and happiness and hope and joy.
- 18 May, 2018
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