The fiancé neglects his fiancée during the engagement period
The engagement period is one of the most beautiful periods in which a girl lives with her partner. She enjoys the feelings of love, attention and passion throughout this period, but perhaps with time there appear some kinds of ignorance and lack of attention.
Therefore there are many reasons for the lack of interest of the Khatib to his engagement and ignore it, including:
The ongoing fights between you:
If it is normal for you to have daily fights and agitation when talking on the phone or about meeting you on something even if it is trivial.
If there is no common point for you to speak:
It is normal that Khatib speaks to his fiancé and that each of them wants the other and wants to talk in all things for a long time, such as: talking about self, about childhood, expressing each other's feelings towards others and talking about the future.
If there is no common point and intellectual communication between them, this is evidence that the engagement is useless, and perhaps unfortunately does not reach safety.
Dates of interviews between Khatibin:
It is normal if there is mutual love between the two Khatibs, and each of them longs for the other, he should always meet him and be beside him most of the time and feel satisfaction and happiness in their existence together, if there is no such customs between them, this indicates the lack of love between them.
He is responsible for everything in his marriage, so he has to prepare for many costs, including: a house with all its basics, joy and other obligations. If there is a physical pressure, it makes him neglect his fiancée sometimes and this affects his right to his preoccupation with thinking about his material matters.
Therefore, the fiancee must understand that and avoid quarrel with her fiance so as not to increase the burden on him and realize that this is beyond his will.
Especially the behavior of the fiancee:
The actions of the fiancé herself are bad qualities such as excess jealousy, suspicion, and the way of sharp discussion. These things make him disgust with her actions and dislikes them and avoids talking with them. In time, this leads to failure of engagement and ending of relationship.
- 12 May, 2018
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