Questions you do not ask your partner
There are a number of questions that you should avoid asking your partner. These questions are:
1. Do you think I'm fat?
This is an ugly question, so I have to determine the answer yourself when looking at the mirror or through the balance. If your partner answers "yes, you are fat" then you will do a quarrel. If you answer "no" and you should do a good life partner, I thought he was lying and here are many questions in this category like: Do I look older? Am I not pretty? Am I stupid?
2. Do you think my friend is beautiful?
If he said "yes it is very beautiful" what next? The question that follows is often asked: "Do you think it's prettier than me?" "Well, I'm not sure she has a little touch of beauty." You'll be alarmed because you think he's not telling the truth. What good thing can come from such a conversation and dialogue?
3- Did you miss me today?
He does not miss you, but this does not mean he does not like you. This kind of questions makes him feel bad that he is a fool because he did not miss his wife and not an hour but he did not miss her all day but the truth is that he probably did not find the time to miss you and he knows It's quite Siraki after work.
4 - If I am dead I will marry again?
Some wives only ask this question, but if you die before your husband it is not your business to get married again or not. Vanty can ask him to marry a woman who treats the children gently but does not spoil the current moments with this question.
5. Your former fiancée What was her shape?
Before you ask this question, know what your motives are. Do you try to know what his point of view is in his previous fiancee? Do you just feel curious? Or do you feel jealous because he has tried love before? In general, this question feels unsafe so do not give him the opportunity to look at his past
6. Will you contact me when you arrive there?
Men love to communicate with their partners when they want to, but not because they are forced to do so. When a man feels forced to communicate and feels that his partner is with her, he will start resisting. He will feel imprisoned and the phone is the track that connects him to the cell.
7. Where do you see us after ten years?
Most men have no plans for twenty years to come. They live for the moment and enjoy every moment they spend with their partner. But that does not mean they do not have long-term goals, but if you stick with a man, he does not think of a path he has been in for 20 years.
8. What do you think?
It's great to talk to your partner, but you have to see things in a different way. Most men rarely ask themselves philosophical questions, just as they rarely sit and analyze what happened during the day. They do not ask themselves true or false questions and do not deal with the details.
When a man sits silent, I feel sad that he is sad about you and wants to leave you, although at the time he may be willing to sit alone to solve a problem at work or to enjoy some freedom.
9. Will you continue to marry me even if I am blind, deaf or dumb?
It is possible that you try to make your partner tell you what you want to hear and this is not a bad thing but make your partner is the first step to make him say that I am ready to give my eyes if I need it and ready to give you tongue and ears if you want.
Give him the opportunity to tell you the extent of your romantic and light and your shadow and your intelligence and attractiveness and do not have to tell you this because you want to hear that if you do not want to talk about it is likely to tell you later.
10. Do you date another woman?
I saw you looking at the secretary and stopped lying. I can smell her perfume a mile away. This question is very provocative. If the life partner is really loyal and does not have any intention of treason, it will end up being frustrating and angry with you and your questions.
So you have to avoid these questions even if you feel jealous because these questions are very obvious signs of insecurity, I have to reconcile with yourself and solve your own problems when achieving internal peace with self disappear symptoms of insecurity.
11. Why did you do that?
Especially when it is about changing work, buying a car or making a fateful decision. Most men want to hear the advice when they ask for it. They want to see their strong independent partner next to them and are not afraid to lead them when needed.
A man does not like to be criticized for something he did or a decision to take. So you have to show your partner how much you care about him by communicating well and by making him feel that he is the first and last decision in your life.
- 23 May, 2018
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