Four Tips for Continued Marriage
Life is always between couples and they are at the beginning of marital life is wonderful in all its meanings, and tranquility prevails in their lives and understanding is the basis of the relationship between them. But soon forget all these things and with the pressures of life, and the concerns and troubles become life among them difficult and their hearts filled with sadness and repentance and each party the other as a result of what they have reached, and sometimes ends the marital life with regret, although the parties may be right but They did not communicate well, and did not get enough opportunity to express what was inside. Today we will present you with 4 tips for continuing marriage.
1 - Good listening:
He wants to speak and explain his point of view. She wants to talk and explain her emotions and express her feelings. They do not listen to each other. He fails to make them feel like they are understandable and fail to ease them in such situations or give him an opportunity to justify his position. So it is very necessary to give the husband an opportunity for his wife to dispense with what is inside and it is also necessary to listen to him with all the attention when justified his position and do not interrupt him during the talk and also must be aware that he listened attentively, listening to him a remarkable impact in improving the understanding significantly between couples and helps On the continuation of marriage and distance from tension and lack of understanding.
2. Lack of understanding of differences:
The husband thinks mistakenly that his wife thinks and feels like him, and acts like him. The wife thinks she is mistaken because her husband thinks like her and feels like her and he does not. God created man with psychological and physical qualities quite different from the mirror, and not understanding these differences makes each one wait for his own action or say: "If I were in his place I would have done such and such" In this thinking, each feels pain and unnecessary psychological fatigue. The couple must understand the differences between them. He knows how to think she is and vice versa or else they will not be as they planned her before.
3. Avoid controversy:
Often couples argue, and may not pass a day or otherwise was their companion's argument. The argument is a scourge in married life, so each party clings to its point of view, refusing even to listen or to think from another angle in the subject, and even more dangerous than that is total denial, even if this party is wrong, such things and repeat them threaten to continue marriage. We advise you dear to give up There is no winning party in the debate as a loser, instead of arguing with the couple to rethink the situation from one angle to another and to place each party in the other's place and master the art of listening.
4. Exchange of accusations:
Often couples exchange accusations one after the other at the time of disagreements and sometimes may be issued by the husband or wife words hurtful inadvertently have a profound impact and difficult to forget and the more the wounds increased the alienation and distance and tension between the spouses and exacerbate the differences and complicate things significantly, we advise you to stop the exchange of accusations And to maintain the feelings of the other party because the speech that is said and wounded remains stuck in mind and with the outbreak of any dispute these words appear on the surface again. In order to continue the marriage, the couple should discuss quietly and think to solve any problem between them and provide their efforts to build the relationship not to destroy it, and accept the differences so happy happy married life.
- 9 Apr, 2018
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